Parent Corner #16

“Discernment STEPS back.”

Troy Farley • FCA Sports Leagues Director
January 21, 2026

3 Minute Read

A quote shared recently by Pastor Micah at Faith Tri-Cities has stayed with me:

“Discernment STEPS back.”

That simple phrase applies to almost every part of life — parenting, marriage, leadership, and especially youth sports. Life can move fast. Games move fast. Emotions move fast. And when things move too fast, that’s often when mistakes are made.

The same is true in how we communicate with our kids and our spouses. When emotions rise, our instinct is often to talk more, explain more, correct more, or point out what went wrong. But discernment doesn’t rush forward. It steps back.

Stepping back creates space.

Space to listen.

Space to breathe.

Space to understand what’s really going on beneath the surface.

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Letting Go and Letting God

In All In, Mark Batterson describes surrender with a powerful image from the story of Moses:

“Throwing down your staff is letting go and letting God.” Moses’ staff represented control, security, and familiarity. God asked him to release it — not because it had no value, but because surrender always comes before transformation.

This connects directly to discernment. When we move too fast, we often cling tightly to control: control of the outcome, control of the conversation, control of being right. But discernment steps back. It loosens its grip. It creates space for God to lead instead of forcing our own solution.

In parenting, marriage, and leadership, letting go doesn’t mean we stop caring. It means we stop rushing. We release control long enough to listen, pray, and respond with wisdom. That kind of surrender is not passive. It’s faithful. And it creates room for God to work.

Meet Ray

Ray came off the court frustrated after a tough practice. A drill hadn’t gone well, and his coach had corrected him in front of the team. Ray tossed his water bottle down and crossed his arms.

At first, his dad was ready to jump in with advice. He had plenty of thoughts. Plenty of solutions. Plenty of words. But then he paused. Instead of correcting Ray or replaying the mistake, he said, “Do you want to talk about it?” Ray shrugged, then quietly said, “I just felt embarrassed.” They sat for a moment. No fixing. No lecturing. Just space. A few minutes later, Ray took a deep breath and said, “I think I know what I need to work on.” That moment didn’t need more information. It needed discernment. And discernment stepped back.

Takeaway: This week, make space. Step back before stepping in. Listen. Breathe. Then act. Discernment often does its best work when we slow down enough to truly see what’s happening.

Win The Day,

Troy Farley

FCA Sports Leagues Director

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Troy Farley

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Troy Farley

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December 17, 2025 • 3 Minute Read

Parent Corner #13

Bigger Than Basketball Welcome back. We’re excited to kick off January and February basketball for our 8–12 year olds. This season includes 225 athletes, but as always, the purpose is bigger than basketball. Every practice, every game, every huddle is an opportunity to shape hearts, habits, and character. We’re grateful you’ve chosen to be part of this journey with us. As we step into this next stretch of the season, our theme continues to be the same: TEAMMATE. Our Vision This Season Being a great teammate is more than passing the ball or cheering from the bench. It’s about how kids treat one another. How they respond to adversity. How they show respect to coaches, officials, classmates, siblings, and parents. Our goal is to help kids learn to put others first — on the court, at home, in the classroom, and in our community. When kids learn to be great teammates, they become better athletes. Better students. Better friends. Better leaders. This season, we want to reinforce that message intentionally through a new book. This Season’s Book: All In By Mark Batterson Learn more about the book HERE If our last book The Circle Maker taught us to pray bold prayers, All In challenges us to live bold lives. The central idea is simple: following Jesus is not a half-hearted decision. It’s a daily choice to give our best effort, our full attention, and our whole heart — even when it’s uncomfortable or unnoticed. This fits perfectly with our TEAMMATE theme. Great teammates don’t play halfway. They show up. They commit. They give their best for the good of the group. Over the next several weeks, we’ll pull simple, practical truths from All In to help parents, athletes, and coaches think about commitment, effort, and what it looks like to live with purpose. Meet Ray Ray walked into the gym for the first practice of the new season and immediately noticed how loud it was. New faces. New teams. New expectations. He bounced the ball nervously while the coach talked. During a drill, Ray missed an easy layup and felt his shoulders drop. Before he could say anything, a teammate jogged over and said, “You’ve got the next one.” Ray nodded and smiled. Something felt different. Instead of worrying about his mistake, he focused on the next play. He hustled back on defense, passed the ball, and encouraged someone else. On the drive home, Ray thought about it. Basketball felt more fun when it wasn’t all about him. Being a teammate didn’t make the game smaller — it made it better. Takeaway: This season is bigger than basketball. As we begin January and February, let’s help our kids learn what it means to be all in — committed teammates who show up, encourage others, and play with purpose in every area of life. Win The Day, Troy Farley FCA Sports Leagues Director

Troy Farley

FCA Sports Leagues Director